sunshine86 wrote:hi chrissy! i dont understand why i still dont have a guy truely loves me..
why i've always gotten play by them... its really sad! i dont think i cant trust any male anymore....

cant you find out what the "reason" it might be???
and do i ever find a guy that loves and can return the same feelings i can give him?? in the matter of fact how and when will he shows up?? sorry to seem so desperately but i've been burned twice... so i'm soo scared like other girls whom are the same situation like me.... i'm sooo confused right now!!! thank you!!!

Tempus wrote:It's me again
Chrissy.W.x You are right about a lot of things you have told me. But one thing I still don't understand. Everytime I am ready to be with a guy and show him that I am ready for some relationships he just goes away. I don't understand why because I can tell for sure when a guy likes me. So I would like to know if there is anything wrong with me or what else can it be.
P.S. Well, there's one guy. I know he likes me. And I likes him too but I have a feeling that he is just the same as a guy who betrayed me about a year ago. I can tell it by the look in his eyes. And I know he will never do anything to be with me but I don't know why. So could you tell what to expect from him and if any relationships between us are possible.

Chrissy.W.x wrote:@Meluivan & drewisbaronofwinchester: For me there is NO bad luck! That's simply not existing. The things which happen to us are what needs to happen to us to grow as person. And it's our task to make the best out of it even if it's something bad. You have to be positive and willing to deal with those obstacles life throws at you, then you'll see that most things are easier to overcome than it seems at first. Sure some people have easier lives than others, I would never disagree to that. But still it's not what you have that matters, but what you make out of it.

Well if you don't want to talk about it openly you can also PM me... And you can also "write a novel" if you can't put it into one question, if you know what I mean... or you just explain the situation to me and I see what the cards have to say without asking anything special... Maybe that'll help too.

Again I'm sorry for the delay...
OK, let's see...

the cards see that a lot of things aren't right at the moment. I guess what ever your friend said had hurt you a lot. I don't know if she meant to do that or if it was just the heat of the moment, but that doesn't change the effect it has on you.
For what you decide about your future as friends, you should take into account what your heart tells you, not only what your mind is saying. How do you feel about what happened? That's the question you need to answer for yourself. What you need is someone to rely on, someone who's there for you, someone you can laugh and cry with... That's what you need to find. Maybe you cabn fidn that in her (again), maybe not... That's hard to tell from the crads. They only say that things will be difficult but when you not give up and take all chances, even if they mean a fresh start, then you'll find what you're looking for.

sunshine86 wrote:thank you chrissy... hard to deal with this tho.....
that quote is good, but still... its sad to see this.. its true, i am scared... but but... i've to come up with something.... since the card didnt mention any guy will show up.... but thank you again chrissy!!

Chrissy.W.x wrote:Well, as a friend, from what you told me, I'd ask you if there's maybe a difference between "you as in friend" and "you as in lover", if you act any different or something? Because that could explain what you describe... Or maybe you're expecting too much which scares the buys away? But those are only friend's advices, so let's see what the cards say...

Chrissy.W.x wrote:[i]
Lovelife:
Don't rush or force things. Take it easy, go a step backwards if necessary. Sort out your mind to get a clearer picture. And then go one step after another. At the end the cards see that your situation is getting better. You will move farward mentally and emotionally. Life has still a lot in store for you.

*Chrisfan* wrote:hey chrissy!! i guess you just didn´t see my post two pages ago, but i can understand that, i mean you have a lot of questions here and my has changed anyway, so..^^ i wanted to ask you if you could tell me about my lovelife..there´s that boy, and i don´t really know if he likes me as but as i do..so but im not in a hurry, so you can take your time..
thanks in advance chrissy!!!

Kirianna Ledräen wrote:Hi Chrissy. I am your willing test subject. I can read the cards a little itty bit, but haven't done so in a long time. Not that I'm that good, I'm always looking in the book! So, what I would like to know is, what does the future hold for my lovelife? I'm the shy type and it's been years since I've had a boyfriend. I'm not saying how many, it's too embarrassing! And also, it'd be nice to know where I'm going work-wise.

*Chrisfan* wrote:hey chrissy!! i guess you just didn´t see my post two pages ago, but i can understand that, i mean you have a lot of questions here and my has changed anyway, so..^^ i wanted to ask you if you could tell me about my lovelife..there´s that boy, and i don´t really know if he likes me as but as i do..so but im not in a hurry, so you can take your time..
thanks in advance chrissy!!!

Chrissy.W.x wrote:Well... I'm practising now for a little while, but I still have to check some cards in the book from time to time... And... well if you had more than one boyfriend than it's more than I had... *wink* Why I'm telling you this? Because the number really don't count, so there's no need to feel embarrassed... ok? *hugs* Ok, now let's see what the cards say...

Lovelife:
I got as card for your current sizuation the world turned upside down. This means what you're closing yourself off from the world around you. You feel unsecureand therefore you're standing in your own way. (And from what you said about being shy, I'd say the cards are probably right) You should enlighten your spirit a little more and be careful that you not get lost in selfpity. Because if it comes to the latter, you will end up bitter and alone. Don't let your own dark side take over, even if things won't be perfect from the start. What the cards see, that there is a loss on it's way. maybe a freindship that is going to break, or something like that... But this will make you see. You will gain new views on life and that will push you forward. At the end, for your future the cards see a new beginning, something huge that will make your life so much brighter. Seems Mister Right isn't that far away...