Meluivan wrote:Hey, first time posting in this thread. I didn't know you read the cards Chrissy. I used to a long time ago but got too busy with the rest of my life to keep it up. But I do remember that it was always nice to have someone else read mine instead of being the one doing all the reading.

Anyhow, I do have a request here. Both my husband and I recently have been having a string of bad luck. It slacked off a bit on me in the last few days but hubby is still not doing well as far as careers go. So I guess I want to know whether he'll get out of this slump and maybe whether or not my good luck will hold.

Thanks in advance,

M.

Hey Mel I know Chrissy is going to do a reading but I do know how you feel I feel like I myself are having bad luck too.

drewisbaronofwinchester wrote:Hey Mel I know Chrissy is going to do a reading but I do know how you feel I feel like I myself are having bad luck too.

Sorry to hear that. I personally have been trying to dispell all the negative energy in my life and it has been working pretty well but I don't think my husband believes too much in luck and negative and positive energy and such so it's not really getting through to him. But I'll wait and see what Chrissy says. Maybe she knows something I don't.

M.

Yep she sure did helped me out when it comes to my friend. Though I need to ask her about something else regarding my friend...and me. I just need to figure out how to ask her. (Chrissy I'll put it up once the question pops in my head.)

ONCE you have time.. could you tell me bout my lovelife for this schoolyear?

Meluivan wrote:Hey, first time posting in this thread. I didn't know you read the cards Chrissy. I used to a long time ago but got too busy with the rest of my life to keep it up. But I do remember that it was always nice to have someone else read mine instead of being the one doing all the reading.

Anyhow, I do have a request here. Both my husband and I recently have been having a string of bad luck. It slacked off a bit on me in the last few days but hubby is still not doing well as far as careers go. So I guess I want to know whether he'll get out of this slump and maybe whether or not my good luck will hold.

Thanks in advance,

M.

Hey... first of all I'm sorry to hear that things aren't so well for you at the moment... and then I'm terribel sorry that this took me sooooooooo long... I really am... But life came into my way so I couldn't do it before... I'm sorry...

Future in career and in general for you and your husband:
General future:
Well... could it be that things are already changing a little? Because... The cards say that at the moment you and your husband are very close to each other. Your happy to be together. Well of course this could also just mean, that you're there for each other, stick to each other, loving each other like the first day you've met... But the cards also say some huge worries which will turn or already turned into nightmares and which make you both suffer. You should be careful that this isn't going to affect your relationship. You need to talk to each other... Shared pain is only half the pain. oh and... there is someone or something that might stepp into your way, doing more harm then good, so kepp your eyes open! For your fruture the cards see some changes which are about to happen. Something or someone will turn your life into another direction, maybe you'll find another job or maybe you'll even move to another town. What ever may be the reason for that, it'll have a strong influence on you, so make sure that things will go the right way so that in the end things will have a good end...

Career:
Oh... yeah that fit's to my suggestion from above... *wink* When it comes to career the cards say that your life is a mess... (Sorry)Chaos and fightings are ruling those days... The world seems to be against you both right now. There are people doing everything to diss you or make you stand in a bad light. Be careful not to fall in their traps. What you need now is to keep your inner strengh and balance... Gain power from your relationship, from your love. You have to be strong to get through this, but when you stick to gether, you will. Just, don't let your probles at work affect your private life. As card for your future when it comes to your career, I have here "the world"... *smile* Just in case you don't remember, this cards stands for a positve developement, for being fine with the world around you and for getting something done succesfull... It stands for being able to reach your aim... So I would say things aren't that bad in your future... *wink* It's definately getting better!

Angelenna wrote:What can I expect for the last of this year...

Rest Of The Year:
The cards say that at the moment you're dealing with someting that is long gone... something from your past that you can't let go of, but maybe it's time to... In the next time you should be careful not to waste your money. Just spend as much as you really can afford. The cards also see that some plans you have will be delayed... but they won't be cancelled. At the end of this year things will go better, your spirts will rise and you'll be happy with you and the world around you.

@Meluivan & drewisbaronofwinchester: For me there is NO bad luck! That's simply not existing. The things which happen to us are what needs to happen to us to grow as person. And it's our task to make the best out of it even if it's something bad. You have to be positive and willing to deal with those obstacles life throws at you, then you'll see that most things are easier to overcome than it seems at first. Sure some people have easier lives than others, I would never disagree to that. But still it's not what you have that matters, but what you make out of it.

drewisbaronofwinchester wrote:Yep she sure did helped me out when it comes to my friend. Though I need to ask her about something else regarding my friend...and me. I just need to figure out how to ask her. (Chrissy I'll put it up once the question pops in my head.)

Well if you don't want to talk about it openly you can also PM me... And you can also "write a novel" if you can't put it into one question, if you know what I mean... or you just explain the situation to me and I see what the cards have to say without asking anything special... Maybe that'll help too.

charmedfreak wrote:ONCE you have time.. could you tell me bout my lovelife for this schoolyear?

"ONCE you have time"??? that's pretty good... *lol* I really wish the day would have 30 hours instead of 24...

Lovelife this schoolyear:
The cards say that there is a woman in your life (I'm not meaning as a lover... *wink*) who gives you a shoulder to hold on, when you need to. She'll give you advices you should listen to, because she has led a life full of experiances and knows so much more. In the next year you will meet someone, someone you will fall for. But I'm afraid he won't be "the one"... or maybe he will someday, but not right now. Maybe this love won't be answered, or maybe it will. buit it won't last. But anyway... at the end of this schoolyear there is something new to begin. Either it's a new start after a break up, or maybe you meet something new. Either way you will be on cloud number 9.

Chrissy.W.x wrote:
Hey... first of all I'm sorry to hear that things aren't so well for you at the moment... and then I'm terribel sorry that this took me sooooooooo long... I really am... But life came into my way so I couldn't do it before... I'm sorry...

Future in career and in general for you and your husband:
General future:
Well... could it be that things are already changing a little? Because... The cards say that at the moment you and your husband are very close to each other. Your happy to be together. Well of course this could also just mean, that you're there for each other, stick to each other, loving each other like the first day you've met... But the cards also say some huge worries which will turn or already turned into nightmares and which make you both suffer. You should be careful that this isn't going to affect your relationship. You need to talk to each other... Shared pain is only half the pain. oh and... there is someone or something that might stepp into your way, doing more harm then good, so kepp your eyes open! For your fruture the cards see some changes which are about to happen. Something or someone will turn your life into another direction, maybe you'll find another job or maybe you'll even move to another town. What ever may be the reason for that, it'll have a strong influence on you, so make sure that things will go the right way so that in the end things will have a good end...

Career:
Oh... yeah that fit's to my suggestion from above... *wink* When it comes to career the cards say that your life is a mess... (Sorry)Chaos and fightings are ruling those days... The world seems to be against you both right now. There are people doing everything to diss you or make you stand in a bad light. Be careful not to fall in their traps. What you need now is to keep your inner strengh and balance... Gain power from your relationship, from your love. You have to be strong to get through this, but when you stick to gether, you will. Just, don't let your probles at work affect your private life. As card for your future when it comes to your career, I have here "the world"... *smile* Just in case you don't remember, this cards stands for a positve developement, for being fine with the world around you and for getting something done succesfull... It stands for being able to reach your aim... So I would say things aren't that bad in your future... *wink* It's definately getting better!

Well alot of this does make sense. Right now my husband and I do seem closer than we have been in the past but alot of that has to do with me trying to look at everthing positively and to accept him the way he is. (Not the easiest thing in the world) And there is always someone trying to interfere in out lives. Between his family and friends and my family there are any number of people to chose from.

I don't really want to move but there is a change that I've been contemplating recently that would fit that "world" card completely.

I guess I should have told you that at this time I have no career. I was in a car accident five years ago that left me disabled. So I am a stay at home mom. But I've been seriously contemplating trying to become a published author. I haven't had the courage enough or thought that my writing skills were good enough up until this point to attempt that. But my way of thinking is changing.

My husband on the other hand just lost his job shortly after I posted this request. So change is certainly in order for him.

Okay so I guess now that all of that has been said do you still see the same things or does this clarify anything for you on what you did read. I'm having a feeling that some of this jives with what you said but maybe I'm just not grasping it completely.

Thanks for the read. As I said it's nice to have someone else who can do this for you.

M.

Meluivan wrote:Well alot of this does make sense. Right now my husband and I do seem closer than we have been in the past but alot of that has to do with me trying to look at everthing positively and to accept him the way he is. (Not the easiest thing in the world) And there is always someone trying to interfere in out lives. Between his family and friends and my family there are any number of people to chose from.

I don't really want to move but there is a change that I've been contemplating recently that would fit that "world" card completely.

I guess I should have told you that at this time I have no career. I was in a car accident five years ago that left me disabled. So I am a stay at home mom. But I've been seriously contemplating trying to become a published author. I haven't had the courage enough or thought that my writing skills were good enough up until this point to attempt that. But my way of thinking is changing.

My husband on the other hand just lost his job shortly after I posted this request. So change is certainly in order for him.

Okay so I guess now that all of that has been said do you still see the same things or does this clarify anything for you on what you did read. I'm having a feeling that some of this jives with what you said but maybe I'm just not grasping it completely.

Thanks for the read. As I said it's nice to have someone else who can do this for you.

M.

First of all: I'm so sorry to hear about that accident. And I'm glad you survived it, because it's a pleasure to be able to talk to you this way right now... *wink*

Well, about the cards... From what you told me, I'd agree that "this jives with what [I] said"... I mean, it seems you are in a really difficult situation, and I know from friends how hard this can be... And I guess this will cause your husband some sleepless nights full of worries how life will go on for you... What you both should keep in mind is the love you feel for each other, and that after every rain the sun will shine again (but I guess you already know that). I mean, I don't know what kind of job your husband had, and even if I would, I no nothing about the situation in the US... But having had only temporary jobs and being unemployed between them for several months each time I know that life goes on, no matter what. It's just what you make out of it, what matters... So try to make him see that, try to make him see, that you support him and believe in him no matter what, because that's what he needs now. As the cards say: keep you balance, don't get bitter over all this, still try to enjoy your life as much as you can. And I'm sure he'll find a new place to work soon. Just don't give up, you both I mean...

About you publishing a novel... well try it! Who knows, maybe you'll become famous... You will never find out if you don't try. And maybe this is just what you need right now... That new impulse on your life.

Anyway... I'm crossing my fingers for both of you that everything will turn out fine, soon!

Thank you very much, Chrissy.

About a year ago I think I would have seriously had problems taking your advice. I was so negative about everything in my life. But then things started looking up and I gained a sense of peace that I don't think I ever truly had before. So now that things are going downhill again I figured that my mood would change but for some odd reason, it just isn't. I'm still very relaxed and upbeat about everything. It's almost as if nothing can phase me anymore. I just seem to know that we'll make it somehow.

I'm hoping that my faith in my husband will keep him from becoming too upset. He is unfortunately an extreme pessimist. Yes, I know. Opposites definately do attract. I do know one thing though. At the time that my attitude was bad I did not have any faith in him and things were alot worse and he didn't seem to try as hard. Now that I'm showing the faith that I should have always done it's more like us against the world instead of us against each other. I like that. It works better.

But anyhow, thank you for the words of encouragement. I'm sure that very soon I'm gonna attempt that book thing. Right now I am at the best place I can be as far as my writing goes. I'm writing for the love of the story and that is what it takes, as far as I see it, to truly put forth your best effort.

M.

Chrissy.W.x wrote:

charmedfreak wrote:ONCE you have time.. could you tell me bout my lovelife for this schoolyear?

"ONCE you have time"??? that's pretty good... *lol* I really wish the day would have 30 hours instead of 24...

Lovelife this schoolyear:
The cards say that there is a woman in your life (I'm not meaning as a lover... *wink*) who gives you a shoulder to hold on, when you need to. She'll give you advices you should listen to, because she has led a life full of experiances and knows so much more. In the next year you will meet someone, someone you will fall for. But I'm afraid he won't be "the one"... or maybe he will someday, but not right now. Maybe this love won't be answered, or maybe it will. buit it won't last. But anyway... at the end of this schoolyear there is something new to begin. Either it's a new start after a break up, or maybe you meet something new. Either way you will be on cloud number 9.

Ooooh thanks.. REALLY helpful, reaaaally.
End of the schoolyear new begin.. Reaaaaally interesting..

THANKS ^^

Chrissy.W.x wrote:
General Future:
There will be some changes through. You're about to enter a new part of your life (new job maybe, or a new hometown or whatever). Those things that will happen may not be easy but they'll lead you to new happyness. You will have a great life with great friends to share your joy...

Well I'm not sure about happyness. At least not now. Because I feel I'm about to give up everything right now. I'm too tired fighting.
But you were right about new part of my life and it is very hard in every way. And as usual I found new problems for myself that I can't solve without giving up what I've started.
Sorry for not telling you exactly what has happened. It's not that I don't want to. I can't. It's just everytime I tell people about my life I loose everything I have. I hope You'll understand.

Chrissy I remembered my question I wanna ask you. You see my friend had been rude to me and she said I'm not her friend anymore. What's in store for our friendship? Would we still be friends in the future?

drewisbaronofwinchester wrote:Chrissy I remembered my question I wanna ask you. You see my friend had been rude to me and she said I'm not her friend anymore. What's in store for our friendship? Would we still be friends in the future?

Again I'm sorry for the delay...
OK, let's see...

the cards see that a lot of things aren't right at the moment. I guess what ever your friend said had hurt you a lot. I don't know if she meant to do that or if it was just the heat of the moment, but that doesn't change the effect it has on you.
For what you decide about your future as friends, you should take into account what your heart tells you, not only what your mind is saying. How do you feel about what happened? That's the question you need to answer for yourself. What you need is someone to rely on, someone who's there for you, someone you can laugh and cry with... That's what you need to find. Maybe you cabn fidn that in her (again), maybe not... That's hard to tell from the crads. They only say that things will be difficult but when you not give up and take all chances, even if they mean a fresh start, then you'll find what you're looking for.