@Chrissy: You are always welcome!

@Jody: I hope you can find the time and money for your trip! And that you enjoy it, too!

Pff.. so busy with school *sigh*
But only one more week, only it's a week full of tests *sigh*
So, that will be a week full of learning, learning, learning
And i have to learn, cause otherwise i probably have to do my year again

I don't know if I am different from everyone else or what....
Somebody on my blog insisted that I should do the "coming out" and admit I am * just because I wrote about the times in which me and my friend met for a coffee or just spent some time together.
I don't know what's wrong with it...if I am happy to have a friend who is so kind with me and I love to spend time with him (even just for a coffee) then what is the big issue? Just because we're boys we can't be friends?
I just think that friendship is just this: being happy of having somebody similar to you whom you can talk to and have fun with aimlessly...
If I am wrong, guys just tell me so!!

No you're not wrong! I mean.. it's more a girl thing.. but boy's can do it also! I haven't problems with it

Simo, you are not wrong...
You know, it's weird, isn't it, two guys who are really good friends and have lots of fun together, they have to be *. If it's a guy and a girl who are best friends, then they are in love.... What the * is wrong with this world? Can't we have really good friends, that are just that? Good friends? It seems everyone is reading things into these relationships that aren't there.
So Simo, keep your great friend, and forget what everyone else says. You have every right to have a good friend who isn't your lover, no matter if they are boy or girl.
And isn't that what friends are anyway? People you can have fun with and talk to, and lean on?

my point exactly...as the song said "that's what friends are for"

yeaaaah, nonsense. I have heard things like my students saying I am married because i use a lot of rings, or that i am * because they used to see me with a girl friend, or friends who thought the same for just being with another girl friend and taking her hand -hat was weird, I admit, but hey, Japanese culture... you never know the differences among countries- Or... People saying I LIKE some boy just because we spend a looong time together. *... A TEACHER told me once in high school!!! He asked me if i liked my best friend, because we wee always together and he was a boy! XDDD So let people talk. i do, and have fun. Sometimes I play with it, with what they think. They want me *?? let them believe I am XDDD They want me married?? Why not!? XDDD Just have fun. People like gossiping, well, let them do it.

Ok...that's how the story with the lady evolved (and somehow it includes both my previous posts):
yesterday she was about to leave again earlier than when she has to so I stopped her and told her she had to stay, but she started to say "you shut up and get out of my way cause you are not supposed to talk, cause you have your lunch paid for three months" and I just remembered when she told me "is this your last lunch at your friend's?" so I just realized how many things she said about me and my friend behind my back and told her while we were talking "and please, don't involve my friend in this.." and she said "i don't even know who this a**h**e is...".
I was furious...she called my friend that way: how dare she? I just pushed her away and she hit a cabinet, but she didn't get hurt. She had the tutor called and I've been scolded cause I hit her. I know I shouldn't have to, but it really made me furious...I care so much about my friends and nobody has the right to call them that way without even knowing them. But what hurts the most now is tutor's distrust in my regards...I have to try and put the pieces back together...
Anyway, in the afternoon I took a bus and went where my friends live cause I was so angry that I can't even stay at my computer and I need to relax. They saw me and came to me and we talked a bit and they cheered me up...
still, that's what friends are for....

i hate to judge people, but she's stupid...she's an hypocrite and she doesn't understand the other people...she understands what she wants to...
Today, while I wasn't there, she told the other girls that I accused them that they told me she called me g*y, but I never mentioned that...I just asked her not to involve my friends in our discussions, cause she doesn't even know them (and she called my friend an a**h**e 2 minutes later!).
I don't know what to do, I can try to ignore her as everybody suggested me but I already know it'll be hard cause I know that now I am the guilty one cause she gave other ppl a "Cat With Boots look" and now they trust her...while I am supposed to be trusted (a thing that only Angelo and Antonio, my two friends, do)

chrissy those are nice pictures, you have decorated your balcony really great.
those are nice flowers.
and about the flags, i have one of those too standing here .

Wow, Chrissy! Nice pics!! You did a wonderful job decorating your balcony! It's really nice!!